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You may have heard stories about children being exploited online, whether through unwanted overtures by adults or exposure to sexually oriented or violent content. Are these reports true or just a lot of media hype? Considering the millions of kids online, the frequency with which these incidents occur is quite small. While it is true that material of a sexual nature can be accessed over the Internet, this kind of content represents only a fraction of the vast collection of information online.

The chances of a child accidentally stumbling across inappropriate material are slim, as most sites now clearly post warnings. Many sites require visitors to register and provide a credit card number in order to verify their age. Unfortunately, the media obsession with sensationalism can obscure the fact that cyberspace teems with exciting resources for both adults and children - one reason why schools around the world are connecting to the Internet in record numbers.

Just like in the real world, parents should exercise supervision. Of course this is easier said then done, particularly when children may be more comfortable with computer technology than their parents. If this sounds like you, don’t be intimidated by the technology. You don’t have to understand how an internal combustion engine works to drive a car. Obviously if a six-year-old can use a computer, certainly an adult can too. Many libraries, community centers and colleges offers hands-on training, so spend the time to familiarize yourself with the technology. Or ask your kids for help.

To keep your kids from becoming targets of crime and exploitation, consider these tips:

• Use common sense to keep them out of trouble. Don’t just get them an Internet account and turn them loose.
• Monitor their activity. Ask them what sites they visit and why. Set-up the computer in a common area so you can keep an eye on things.
• Set limits. It’s up to you to determine how much time they spend online.
• Use filtering software, which allows you to block selected websites. Among the ones to evaluate are:
  • Cyber Patrol
  • CYBERsitter
  • Net Nanny
  • SurfWatch
  • The BAIR browser, designed to block pornographic sites.
• Agree upon a few rules with your kids:
  • Don’t give out a credit card number online or via e-mail.
  • Don’t divulge personal information without your approval.
  • Make sure they let you know immediately if they encounter any material that makes them feel uncomfortable.

A related and perhaps not as serious problem is websites that target children. In the past, some sites have solicited personal information from kids in order to direct market to them. While public outcry has limited this practice, it’s best to discuss this with your children.

• Police Warn Parents to Monitor Kids Online Activity
• Norton Internet Security 2007. Safe Surfing
• How can I protect myself and my computer?
• Protect Yourself Online. Privacy
• Protect Yourself Online. Secure Transactions

March 11th 2007 Posted to   Security